Is grief a serious health condition under the FMLA?
The loss of a family member. The loss of a friend. The loss of a pet. Grief comes in many forms, but does it qualify for leave protections under the federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA)? Maybe, but not likely.
FMLA leave reasons
At a high level, there are six basic reasons that qualify for FMLA leave:
- The birth of a child,
- The placement of a child with an employee for adoption or foster care,
- An employee’s own serious health condition,
- To care for a family member with a serious health condition,
- Qualifying exigency because of a family member’s military duty, and/or
- Military caregiver
Grief isn’t specifically listed among these six reasons; however, grief could be connected to another condition that might qualify for FMLA leave.
Depression, for example, is a chronic health condition that could be exacerbated by the death of a friend or loved one. An employee who is eligible to take FMLA leave and whose depression flares as a result of grief might entitle them to FMLA leave protections.
Other mental health conditions — anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder — are other examples of illnesses that could be affected by grief.
Bereavement leave
If someone’s grief doesn’t rise to the level of a serious health condition as defined under the FMLA, then an employee’s time off related to grief would fall under a company bereavement policy, assuming there is one in place.
Employers should keep in mind that some states have passed grief-related laws.
Take Illinois, for example. Illinois recently expanded the reasons employees may take bereavement leave. The new state bereavement law, which took effect on January 1, 2024, applies to employers with at least 50 employees.
Illinois’ Child Extended Bereavement Leave Act (CEBLA) — or Zachary's Parent Protection Act — entitles full-time employees who have worked for a company for at least two weeks to unpaid, job-protected leave due to the loss of a child by suicide or homicide. Under this law, the term “child" means an employee's biological, adopted, or foster child. It also includes a stepchild, legal ward, or child of a person standing in loco parentis (i.e., in place of a parent).
Even when laws aren’t in place
Employers, whether mandated by law or not, should show compassion to employees who are struggling with grief.
Ways to help a struggling employee might include:
- Displaying empathy,
- Offering longer break times,
- Providing paid or unpaid time off,
- Connecting an employee with support services,
- Being flexible with workloads and schedules, and
- Showing support during a difficult time.
Key to remember: While grief might not qualify for FMLA leave protections, there are many ways employers can support struggling employees.